Consider a Spectrum of Breaks for Autistic Students
- Dr. Lisa Marnell, OTD, MBA

- Feb 6
- 5 min read

As the school year moves forward, I find myself thinking about the word break.
It is a word that shows up in classrooms, IEPs, and behavior plans, yet it is rarely examined closely. We talk about breaks as if they are one thing: A pause. A reward. A moment away from work.
But when you respectfully try to understand Autistic students, it becomes clear that breaks are not interchangeable. A break that supports one child’s nervous system may dysregulate another. And a break that looks restful on the outside may do very little to restore internal capacity.
Why Have Breaks?
Some of the most meaningful moments in my work as an OT happen when adults see breaks as something that supports regulation, connection, and readiness to learn.
One recent moment with a student named Oliver brought this into sharp focus for me.
Oliver is nine. He is bright, thoughtful, and deeply engaged in his interests. Like many Autistic students, he moves through a day that places ongoing demands on a nervous system that is not fully supported by the environment and approaches in his school. By the time he arrived back to his classroom that afternoon, those demands had already taken a toll.
He had just come from a writing block that required sustained attention, fine motor output, and constant self monitoring.
When Oliver walked into the room, he didn’t say much. He went straight to the table where a small bin of Lego pieces sat and began building quietly. I watched his demeanor: He looked more relaxed with every second that passed, engaged in an activity he finds restorative.
An adult unfamiliar with Oliver might have seen this as avoidance. He was not jumping into conversation. He was not transitioning quickly to the next task. He was not following an adult-directed plan.
But this was not avoidance. This was nervous system regulation.
For Oliver, building is not a reward. It is a form of regulatory support. It gives him structure, predictability, and a sense of control after a day filled with effortful demands.
That moment stays with me because it highlights something we often miss. Breaks are not about stopping learning. They are often what make learning possible.
Over time, I have come to see that Autistic students benefit from different types of breaks, each serving a distinct regulatory purpose.
Here are the categories I have discovered . . .
Building Breaks:
Some students, like Oliver, benefit from building breaks. Activities such as Lego, origami, puzzles, or construction materials provide structure and visual order. These breaks support regulation by offering predictability and purposeful engagement, especially after tasks that feel overwhelming or disorganized.
Cognitive Breaks:
Other students need cognitive breaks. These are quiet, internally focused activities such as reading, drawing, or engaging in a deeply preferred interest. For monotropic learners, focusing on a single interest is not a distraction. It is often one of the most effective ways to reduce cognitive overload and restore capacity.
Movement Breaks:
This type of break is often commonly need, but frequently misunderstood. For many autistic students, movement is not about releasing excess energy. It is about organizing the body. Walking, stretching, carrying heavy objects, or pushing against resistance can help regulate sensory input and support attention.
Social Breaks:
Some students regulate best through social breaks. This might look like time with a trusted peer, sitting with a safe adult, or engaging in low-demand conversation. For these students, connection itself is regulating. Feeling seen and understood helps the nervous system settle.
Sensory Breaks:
Sensory breaks are also highly individual. They might involve tactile input, smelling something familiar, adjusting lighting, or reducing noise. What matters is not the category, but the match. Sensory input supports regulation when it is responsive and chosen, not imposed.
Rest Breaks:
There are also students who need genuine rest breaks. These moments involve reduced stimulation and minimal demands. Quiet spaces, low light, and limited language allow the nervous system to reset without additional input.
Listening Breaks:
Listening to favorite music, an audiobook, or a familiar voice without needing to respond can support calm and focus, particularly for students who are verbally taxed throughout the school day.
Moving Forward with Purpose with Breaks
What all of these breaks have in common is that they are responsive. They are not used to control behavior or enforce compliance. They are used to support nervous system capacity.
When adults understand that breaks serve different functions, the school day changes. Students are less likely to escalate. Teachers spend less time managing "behavior" and more time supporting engagement. And children learn that their internal cues matter.
This stands in contrast to traditional approaches that frame breaks as something earned or withheld based on performance. When breaks are treated as tools for nervous system regulation rather than rewards, they become proactive instead of reactive . . . and they actually work!
Oliver’s quiet building that afternoon was not a break from learning. It was what allowed learning to continue.
I find that when teachers and other staff take the time to notice what actually helps a child regulate, we move away from control and toward understanding. We begin to see behavior as communication. And we create environments where Autistic students can stay present, connected, and ready to learn!
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